Abantu sebethatheke ngomunye umkhuba epulatifomu yokwabelana ngamavidiyo i-TikTok, ikakhulukazi abesifazane abavela emhlabeni wonke. Namuhla sizochaza ukuthi iyini i-Lucky Girl Syndrome kanye nesayensi esekelwe kulo mkhuba abasebenzisi abaningi abazizwa benethemba ngawo.
I-TikTok iyikhaya lamathrendi egciwane futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi kubonakala sengathi into entsha yenza izihloko. Kulokhu umqondo wokuba nombono omuhle ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ukholelwa ukuthi izinto ezinhle kuphela ezizokwenzeka kuwe ezibizwa ngokuthi “I-Lucky Girl Syndrome” iwundabamlonyeni.
Umqondo ugcizelela amandla akho okuphumelela kunoma yisiphi isimo. Ukuzikhuthaza nokuhlala unethemba kungazuzwa ngakho. Ukwenza izinqumo endaweni enamandla kunokwesaba cishe kuholela emiphumeleni emihle. Noma bungekho ubufakazi besayensi obusekela lokho, abasebenzisi benkundla yezokuxhumana bafunga ngamandla okubonakaliswa.
Okuqukethwe
Iyini I-Lucky Girl Syndrome
Ithrendi ye-Lucky Girl Syndrome ye-TikTok inokubukwa okuyizigidi ezingu-75 endaweni yesikhulumi futhi abasebenzisi babelana ngamavidiyo ngaphansi kwe-hashtag ethi #luckygirlsyndrome. Abanye abasebenzisi baphinde babelane ngezindaba zabo zempumelelo zokuthi le mantra ibasize kanjani ukuthi banqobe izinselele futhi baphumelele.
Ngokuyisisekelo kuyindlela yokubonakalisa eyenza ukholwe ukuthi unenhlanhla futhi akukho okubi okungenzeka kuwe. Kuncike emandleni okucabanga okuhle okungaba semqoka empumelelweni yakho empilweni futhi kukugcina ujabule ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Abantu abaningi abaziwayo banezwi labo kulo mqondo futhi bawubiza ngokuthi ukuguqula impilo. U-Don Grant MA, MFA, DAC, SU.DCC IV, Ph.D., isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kwabezindaba esigxile emthelela wezobuchwepheshe empilweni yengqondo sithi “I-Lucky girl syndrome ibonakala ikhuthaza ukuthi ukukholelwa nje ukuthi izinto ezinhle zizokwenzeka empeleni kuzozenza zenzeke.”
U-Roxie Nafousi, umqeqeshi wokuzithuthukisa, kanye nochwepheshe ovezayo ekhuluma ngalo mqondo uthe “Ngiyabona ngempela ukuthi kungani ukuphinda iziqinisekiso ezinjengokuthi 'nginenhlanhla enkulu' kungaba nomthelela omuhle empilweni yakho."
Abasebenzisi abaningi beTikTok nabo bathi lo mbono ubasize kakhulu ekubeni nombono omuhle empilweni futhi ubasebenzele izimanga. Ngemva kokubona i-Lucky Girl Syndrome ku-inthanethi, oneminyaka engu-22 ubudala waseDerby wanquma ukusebenzisa le ndlela yokuphila ngemva kokuzizwa engemihle ngomsebenzi.
Ekhuluma ngalo mqondo uthi “Ekuqaleni ngangifana, angazi ngalokhu.” Uyanezela, “Kodwa lapho ngiqhubeka ngibhekisisa futhi ngathola incazelo, okuwukukholelwa ukuthi uyintombazane enenhlanhla futhi uhlanganisa lokho futhi uphila leyo mpilo, ngabona ukuthi ihlobanisa kakhulu nokubonakaliswa.”
U-Laura Galebe, umdali wokuqukethwe we-TikTok oneminyaka engu-22 uthumele ividiyo echaza indlela athatha ngayo lo mqondo futhi uthi “Ayikho indlela engcono yokuwuchaza kunokuba kuzwakale sengathi izinkinga zingivuna ngokuphelele,” ube esengeza “ Ngihlezi ngithi izinto ezinkulu zihlezi zingehlela ngingalindele.”
UGalebe uqhube wathi ekhuluma nababukeli “Zama nje ukukhohlisa ukholwe ukuthi izinto ozifunayo zingafika kuwe bese ubuya uzongitshela ukuthi aziyishintshile yini impilo yakho.”
I-Lucky Girl Syndrome Mantra
Kuwukukholelwa kuwena ukuthi unenhlanhla futhi konke kuzokuhambela kahle. Cabanga ukuthi konke kuzokuhambela kahle, futhi uzobe ulungile. Ungumzuzi wendawo yonke ekhohlakele. Umuntu onenhlanhla emhlabeni nguwe.
Okulandelayo yiziqinisekiso ze-lucky girl syndrome:
- nginenhlanhla,
- Ngingumuntu onenhlanhla engimaziyo,
- Konke kusebenza ngokuthanda kwami,
- Umkhathi uhlala ungisebenzela
- Okunye ukuqinisekiswa okungaba nomthelela omuhle empilweni yakho futhi kukwenze uzizwe ungokhethekile
Ungase futhi ube nentshisekelo yokuhlola Yini i-Smile Dating Test TikTok
Isiphetho
Iyini i-Lucky Girl Syndrome akuseyona into engaziwa kuwe njengoba sesichazile incazelo yayo nokuthi iyini i-mantra ngemuva kwalo mqondo omangalisayo. Yilokho kuphela okwalokhu ngethemba ukuthi kuzokusiza uqonde umqondo futhi kwenze ukukusebenzisa kube lula kakhulu. Yabelana ngemibono yakho ngayo usebenzisa inketho yokuphawula.