Abantu bathe phithi ngomnye umkhwa kwiqonga lokwabelana ngevidiyo iTikTok, ngakumbi abafazi abavela kwihlabathi liphela. Namhlanje siza kuchaza ukuba yintoni i-Lucky Girl Syndrome kunye nesayensi emva kolu hlobo abasebenzisi abaninzi abaziva benethemba malunga nalo.
I-TikTok likhaya kwiindlela zentsholongwane kwaye rhoqo ngoku kwaye kubonakala ngathi kukho into entsha eyenza iintloko. Ngeli xesha ngumbono wokuba unethemba ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye ukholelwa ukuba kuphela izinto ezintle eziya kwenzeka kuwe ezibizwa ngokuba yi-“Lucky Girl Syndrome” ngundaba-mlonyeni.
Ingcamango igxininisa amandla akho okuphumelela kuyo nayiphi na imeko. Ukuzikhuthaza kunye nokuhlala unethemba kunokufezekiswa ngako. Ukwenza izigqibo kwindawo eyomeleleyo kunoloyiko kunokukhokelela kwimiphumo emihle. Nangona kungekho bungqina besayensi obuxhasayo, abasebenzisi beendaba zentlalo bafunga ngamandla okubonakaliswa.
Isiqulatho
Yintoni iLucky Girl Syndrome
Indlela ye-Lucky Girl Syndrome ye-TikTok ineembono ezizizigidi ezingama-75 eqongeni kwaye abasebenzisi babelana ngeevidiyo phantsi kwe-hashtag #luckygirlsyndrome. Abanye abasebenzisi baye babelana ngamabali abo empumelelo ngendlela le mantra ebancede ngayo boyise imiceli mngeni kwaye baphumelele.
Ngokusisiseko bubuchule bokubonakaliswa okwenza ukuba ukholelwe ukuba unethamsanqa kwaye akukho nto imbi inokwenzeka kuwe. Kuxhomekeke kumandla okucinga okulungileyo okunokubaluleka kwimpumelelo yakho ebomini kwaye kukugcina wonwabile ngalo lonke ixesha.
Abantu abaninzi abaziwayo banoluvo lwabo ngale ngcamango kwaye bayibiza ngokuba bukutshintsha ubomi. UDon Grant MA, MFA, DAC, SU.DCC IV, Ph.D., isazi ngesayikholoji samajelo eendaba esigqwesa kwimpembelelo yetekhnoloji kwimpilo yengqondo uthi “Isifo seLucky girl syndrome sibonakala sikhuthaza ukuba ukukholelwa nje ukuba izinto ezintle ziya kwenzeka kuya kuzenza zenzeke.”
U-Roxie Nafousi, umqeqeshi wokuziphuhlisa, kunye nengcaphephe ethetha ngalo mbono uthe "Ndiyasibona isizathu sokuba ukuphinda iziqinisekiso ezinje 'ndinethamsanqa elikhulu' kunokuba nefuthe elihle kubomi bakho."
Abasebenzisi abaninzi beTikTok bakwathi lo mbono ubancedile kakhulu ekubeni banethemba ebomini kwaye ubasebenzele imimangaliso. Emva kokubona i-Lucky Girl Syndrome kwi-intanethi, i-22 yeminyaka ubudala yaseDerby yagqiba ekubeni yamkele le ndlela yokuphila emva kokuziva kakubi ngomsebenzi.
Ethetha ngalo mbono uthi, "Ekuqaleni bendinje, andiyazi ngale nto." Wongeza wathi, “Kodwa okukhona ndijongisisayo ndaza ndafumanisa intsingiselo, ekholelwa ukuba ungoyena ntombazana unethamsanqa kwaye uphila ngale ndlela yokuphila, ndiye ndabona ukuba inxulumana kakhulu nokubonakaliswa.
ULaura Galebe, umyili womxholo weTikTok oneminyaka engama-22 ubudala uthumele ividiyo echaza indlela ayithatha ngayo le nto kwaye uthi "Akukho ndlela ibhetele yokuyichaza kunokuba kuvakala ngathi izinto ezingathandekiyo zindithanda ngokupheleleyo," wongeza " Ndihlala ndisithi izinto ezinkulu zisoloko zisenzeka kum ndingalindelanga.”
UGalebe wongezelele ethetha nababukeli “Zama nje ukukhohlisa kangangoko kwaye ukholelwe ukuba izinto ozifunayo zinokuza kuwe emva koko ubuye undixelele ukuba abutshintshanga ubomi bakho.”
I-Lucky Girl Syndrome Mantra
Kukukholelwa nje kuwe ukuba unethamsanqa kwaye yonke into iya kukuhambela kakuhle. Cinga ukuba yonke into iya kulunga kuwe, kwaye uya kuba ulungile. Ungumxhamli wendalo yonke ekhohlakeleyo. Oyena mntu unethamsanqa emhlabeni nguwe.
Oku kulandelayo ziziqinisekiso ze-lucky girl syndrome:
- Ndinethamsanqa,
- Ndingoyena mntu unethamsanqa endimaziyo,
- Yonke into yenzeka ngokuthanda kwam,
- Indalo iphela isoloko isebenza kum
- Olunye uqinisekiso olunokuba nefuthe elihle kubomi bakho kwaye lukwenze uzive ungoyena ukhethekileyo
Usenokuba nomdla ekujongeni Yintoni uncumo lokuthandana kuVavanyo lweTikTok
isiphelo
Yintoni i-Lucky Girl Syndrome ayiseyinto engaziwayo kuwe njengoko siyichazile intsingiselo yayo kwaye yintoni i-mantra esemva kwale ngcamango imangalisayo. Yiyo yonke le nto ngethemba lokuba iya kukunceda uqonde umbono kwaye yenze kube lula ukuyisebenzisa. Yabelana ngezimvo zakho kuyo usebenzisa ukhetho lwamagqabaza.